Congruency and Integrity Part 1

Congruency and Integrity Part 1

My whole journey over the last 10 years has been about me learning how and when/ why I give my power away to life situations or individuals. I have then been willing to do the work to release how I felt within these circumstances so I could finally understand this game called life from the perspective of my mind in collaboration with my soul.
Different task I know but ultimately it leads to experiencing freedom to BE ME.
The journey of life has taught me that Honesty, Truth and Transparency in all tasks that I undertake is essential, I mean sharing the good, bad and the ugly from this perspective will attract the support of the universe to open the door of opportunities to support me to fulfill my vision for my life.


“We either are healing the wounds or

 fine tuning our talents!”

 I have learned over my 20 years of personal growth journey that sometimes it has been hard to define when I was operating from my the mind / ego desire; compared to when I was open to hear the divine guidance that has me following my heart.

 Initially I did not even understand there was a difference! I was unaware of the shadow components of the different areas of my life.

 I did not understand the value of being consciously aware of what I valued in determining my experienced reality. Was my values driven by a mind materialistic value code or was I able to step back and BE in alignment with my higher vision for this life? BIG QUESTIONS!

 Whenever my mind chatter had me giving my power to another person’s journey leaving me in a position of having no control or a defined role; this should have shown me I had sidetracked from my own greater vision journey for a time.

 Why did I do this? Lack of understanding my full potential. Obviously I was not BEING who I needed to BE to fulfill my vision for my life. I have realized all happens in divine timing and sometimes there are things we need to learn or heal to fulfill our vision.

 I needed to heal low self-esteem and self-worth issues so I could recognize my talents as a gift from God. It seems to me as I work with numerous clients many of us have the similar experience disguised within a slightly different story. I believe we are programmed to have experience’s to support our heart’s desire to awaken to our own magnificence;  I now understand we all have this amazing potential that is not fully understood.

 Personally I have finally surrendered to being open to become the inspiration that will ultimately inspire others to follow their heart. To let go of the stories that have me giving in to playing a smaller game due to the fear of what people may think or how this journey may impact my life. To understand all experiences are perfect for where I am in every moment. I figure I am either growing or healing and I choose to do it with ease supported by Grace.

 Life truly is amazing and I finally feel blessed to be on earth at a time of great change.  When the mind and soul are in balance and magic is following this pattern of thought.

 This has me in alignment with the universal laws of life and open to the full support that the universe has to offer.

 Part 2 will follow tomorrow

 Have a great day

 Love always



Day 10 – Who do you Love the Most?

Day 10 – Who do you Love the Most?

Start by loving YourselfDay 10 – Who do you love the most?

Time for the answer to be YOU!

As mother we tend to say our children, as children we might say our parents. As wives we may say our husbands but not too many women or men say themselves. Why is that?

In truth we cannot give what we do not have, so if we do not love ourselves then how can we really love another?

Could there be other games playing? One that has us playing small so we do not remember our own potentia.

l What are we really trying to get?

1. Approval to be shown that we deserve to be loved because in truth underneath people judge themselves harsher than anyone else would ever dare to do.

2. Save someone so then they can be beholden to you in some way

3. Be rescued because we do not believe in ourselves enough to know we will be OK.

4. Power – some people enjoy being in charge and having things done their way it gives them a level of importance.

All these situations can become addictive to a point we don’t even know we are playing the game. What if we were to realise we do not need anything from another, that we hold all the answers ourselves, we have forgotten our potential. What would happen if we stated by making ourselves NO1 for a part of everyday?

What if we were to ask for something that was really important to us, even knowing our partners would not approve. Would that be OK?

I have found when working with clients when they answer NO they are more likely to have a eating problem. Eating is a way to dull down our own potential, we get into a cycle of giving ourselves a hard time for being overweight, if this is true, who are we to have dreams of greatness? Crazy cycle that needs a light shined on it now.

When you understand what you desire is important enough to be acknowledged you may be surprised to see how solutions arise. The gift comes from how you feel when you decide to make yourself no1, maybe anxiety arises, what will people think, perhaps I will lose my partner. If either of these fears is true then they may not be the people you would want to be with today. If they only love you when you are playing victim game then I would be asking do they really love me.

The gift comes in letting go of the feelings, surrendering them to a higher power or get support initially until your own power returns.

This whole process needs to be done gently explaining it is not that you do not love your friend or partner yet this is a new phase of your life that you are exploring and some things may need to change. If they really love you they will be inspired even if not at first. They may feel threatened because people usually do not like change; this is none of your business they have to learn to deal with their feelings.

Start by making a list of you gifts and talents, YES we all have them start NOW

Speak soon Have a great day

Love always


Jenny and Gary Leather

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